gOD I JUST

I WAS ONLY LURKING HUMOUR BLOGS I DID NOT WANT TO END UP HERE

You know when you get in too deep and you're looking through every blog's link list and suddenly [boyfriend/girlfriend] and you're just like

i cant
i cant
i cant
i caNT

but you have to because NO ONE CAN RESIST CUTE COUPLES?!?!?!?!

I JUST

I might just cry.

It's every girl's secret desire to have someone there, and when we actually get that special person we start wanting something else: attention.
It's not like it's guaranteed that every girl is needy or overly attached, but if the guy tries hard enough and makes the effort to tell her she's pretty, tell jokes, stay up talking, hang out, then being together would be just as easy as breathing.

GOD THEY'RE ADORABLE

Even if girls claim that love is stupid (( ok those are the girls who want ur lovin most )) yOU CAN'T BE GULLIBLE AND SAY OK
BECAUSE IT'S NOT
Even if she claims that flowers and jewelry and dresses are stupid.
Deep inside, she's still a girl.
(( Spoiler alert: she wants them. ))

I don't get how guys find it so hard.

Maybe it's just me, you know? But I've looked everywhere and I don't think I've seen anything different. Girls just want someone to care for them. And I really don't know if it's the same for guys (though I'm sure it's mutual?!?!!) bUT SERIOUSLY IF YOU WANT IT TO WORK CAN YOU JUST MAKE A MOVE

I get that you're shy and I get that it takes time to warm up to someone but you can't completely shut someone out. You can't just expect them to stay there, and wait for you.
You can't expect them to be patient.

If anyone's idea of crawling out of their 'shy bubble' is shutting someone out, then you're probably stupid and you need to go back in your mother's womb to redevelop.
Honestly, talk.
Talk about everything. Your favourite tv shows, movies, bands, artists, authors, books, food (do you like cheese) -- I'm serious when I say everything.

It makes me die inside whenever I see a couple who have been dating for two months and know practically everything about each other; in comparison to another couple who have been dating for five and know close to nothing.

Spoiler alert? The second couple isn't going to get anywhere.